GAMES MEN PLAY

GAMES MEN PLAY

1. Understand that men are turned on by the women who play it coy. Playing it coy makes the guy realize that you’re not going to give it up easily, and it will take some work to win you over. Some women may believe that giving a guy what he wants immediately will put them in his good graces. The opposite is actually true!

Yh i agree...we girls shouldnt give it all out on d first date and all dat,dnt pick up all his calls...dnt pik dem all too quick...dnt always reply wen he texts all dem paroles u get..lmao..u have to front a bit u get but pls oh dnt go and front too much..was reading a blog yh and apparently d babe was fronting and she liked d dude oh dats hw d guy vexed and boned her side...now d babe was now d one trying to get his attention...trust me u dnt want dat to be ur case...and also yh its quite hard...u like him,he likes u...but due to sum RULES u cant shw ur feelings and all..its hard buti it has to be dopne so u wont be taken for granted...so yh I agree wif dis point sha we girls need to PLAY IT COY(i dunno wot coy means oh) lmao


2. Realize that he wants be the “man." Games are often about boosting a man’s ego. If a guy waits to call you, he feels he is keeping you at his mercy. If you return the call immediately or act too eager, you are confirming that he is the man and validating his ego. If a guy takes time to call you, take time to return his call.

Refer to my points in No 1 and 5


3 Understand that it’s the thrill of the hunt. Notice that it’s not about what he can catch. Rather, it's about what he can hunt. In other words, instant gratification is not as satisfying as something that takes some work. If he is only about the hunt, it will be obvious, and you can decide whether or not he’s worth your time.

Like i said before dnt give it all up....he says 'i like u.'..say 'oh really'...dnt say i like u bak so quick u get.,..play sum mind games...mehn i love mind games u knw...giving dem mixed feelings and all...i once changed my relationship status to in a relationship just to mess wif sumones mind...lol

as in d hunt should be interesting and not just boring like...i like u...u like me...lets kiss and go out...dats boring..no one likes dat...u get..lol




4. Realize the bottom line is validation. You may wonder why it is that men play games. A huge part of it is that they want validation. Men often get validation through the games that they play. Women tend to make the mistake of trying harder when a guy is playing games. As a result, men get validation through their little games and continue to play them with other women.

Basically guys do sum fings kjust to see ur reaction..and ur reaction will determine diar next line of action...i feel all dis points r interlinked...like i said before make d hunt interesting...like i said before i changed my status to in a relationship just to mess wif sumones mind..me sef im a game player..lol...its not only guys dat like games..nwaez basically if d tables were turned yh and i was d guy and d guy was me and he changed his status...u knw wot id do NOTHING...id say nothing...id just act normal....and incase ur wondering...he said SOMETHING

5. Recognize that games are kept to a minimum when a guy truly likes a girl. This simple little fact is crucial when it comes to weeding out the guys who are looking for a relationship and the guys who are looking for other things. If a guy is really into a girl, he won’t want to play games because he won’t want to risk losing a good thing. If he persists in playing games, it’s either about finding a hookup or validating his ego.

Yh games are fun but if a guy really likes u...he wont play too many games before he finally tells u I LIKE YOU or WILL U GO OUT WIF ME....if dat dudes playing wif ur mind too much...just knw dat hes just CATCHING CRUISE....he doesnt like u

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

i like

Bumshasha said...

lol..i luveth...som girls nid 2 get ril thoe...if yhu fink som1 lyks yhu since 7 months ago..he ent playin games..HES JUST NOT THAT IN 2 YHU!!!

Switched On Naija said...

hmm, okay, just seeing this for the first time. Truth from the ladies i see. What happens if you don't plan? if it just happens. Sure a guy loves to chase, but what happens if he gets tired and loosing interest. Some relationships develop slowly. He might not like you at first, but the more he sees things could change.

Lets take one for the thing called FATE. For some guys its the night you spent together..and for others..it's the morning after when he sees your face. :)

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